Cheating spouses. Did you know that’s the common dream among married couples?

According to dream expert, author and media personality Lauri Quinn Loewenberg, the most commonly reported dream is the one where your mate is cheating. Loewenberg conducted a survey of more than 5,000 people, and found that the infidelity dream is the nightmare that haunts most people—sometimes on a recurring basis. It rarely has anything to do with an actual affair, she explains, but rather the common and universal fear of being wronged or left alone.

Funny, I have never dreamed about my ex or my current husband ever cheating.

In my ex’s case, I got to see that one up close and personal.

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